My bday party plans

Part of me doesn't want to celebrate, but as it is the social norm I think I better. Well I don't have to do big party, but I can plan one anyway. So here we go:

A big party
Everyone is invited (meaning relatives and friends). I would keep it in Upseerikerho or in S/S Kaunis Veera (yes because of the name). I would say to everyone to get their own place to stay. I would only have my sister  and couple of friends over. If my sister would find another place to stay than maybe I would be able to take more friends over. But anyways, if all would come I would devide the day in two. Those who have kids could come "early" for dinner and music. Friends and relatives without kids could come little bit later when there are no kids (because later there would be more drinking).

Only thing I would be doing would be stressing over who will start fighting first... Yeah I do not think that my relatives can be in one place without fighting. Maybe if I put to the invitation, that if you are not able to be civil please do not come! Also the invitation would be more like "pass it on, if you are her relative you are invited" and rsvp also.

Small party
Only friends invited and they could stay in my place. The party would be in a Teerenpeli restaurant. I would probably need to have a day party for friends and relatives who have kids later. But that would be just BBQ at home and only those who live close by would be invited.

No party
I win in lotto and am able to go travelling for my bday! Yay! Although it can't be very long trip as I need to be in Tornio in the end of August.

Only reason why I am thinking of the bday party now is because my friend had hers last weekend. She had rented a place for the weekend (which was quite cheap as it was winter). I was thinking that as an option for me as well, but my bday is in high season so the prices are almost tripple compared to hers... So I might not do that.

Next weekend I am going to do school stuff with the same energy as I am planning the bday party that I am more likely not going to have.